Up to that moment you realize there might be something beyond the limits of your present reality, your psychological defense strategy has functioned to protect you from exactly this knowledge. "There is no edge," it tell you, "so of course there can exist no bridges to somewhere else!"
The ostrich strategy has worked so far.
Your current view of reality is known to provide sufficient safety for your survival because the fact of the matter is: you have so far survived.
Any change in your strategy throws the entire equation into unknown circumstances, which your psychology relegates to the category of 'a very bad idea'. Seeking change opens you up to the possibility that you might make a fatal mistake.
Fear stops you from trying anything new like poison spray stops an ant.
Even if you are enthusiastic about learning something new, as soon as you begin making gestures in that direction, the learning process and the learning itself are so different from what you fantasized that it might be that you immediately mistrust yourself for deciding to learn.
Or else you mistrust the experience of learning, being certain that it will not succeed, and you become afraid.
More afraid than you ever thought possible.
How could so much be so new so suddenly, and so contrary to your expectations?
After all these years in school, listening to your parents, teachers, and preachers... after so long being alive in the modern world... how could you know so little?
How could learning new things be so difficult?
How could seeing new things feel so dangerous?
The challenge of facing your fears becomes overwhelming. Your once bold adventurous purposes become a boxing ring for a fight to the death between ‘Dr. Yes’ and ‘Dr. No.’
Fear reigns. You are stymied at every turn. None of your ordinary friends even knows what you are talking about.
But if you give up and try to head back into ordinary sanity, ordinary life, peace and safety, the game is over and your enemy Fear has won.
Your impulses to discovery are thrashed by your scattered attention and wild confusion. You settle back into your normal routines and try to forget about such craziness, at some point realizing that this entire process just described is often played out within your unconscious.
On the outside you may simply look like you are procrastinating on your Path of personal development, or like you have simply lost interest and are attracted to some other pursuit. But make no mistake, on the inside Fear has stopped you cold. This description is real and exact.
Nothing can aid you to defeat and overcome Fear because Fear is undeniable and will never go away.
Facing your direct experiences of Fear is unaccountably daunting.
Working with Fear is intimidating because so few have confronted their own personal Fear and know how it goes. Yet this is what starts the whole process of evolution. Fear work initiates everything.
To proceed as a Possibilitator you must at some point in your life become frustrated enough with Fear to say, “This stuckness is too painful for me. I am willing to face Fear directly. I am at the choice point. Either I stay as I am and continue being dead, or I face Fear even if it feels like I will die.”
Only by lowering your Numbness Bar to Fear do you acquire enough authentic necessity to draw down catalytic influences from the next domain up the Sacred Mountain. Your paradox is paradoctored!
Brief glimpses of new possibilities flash into your mind. Somehow a distinction lands in your 5 Bodies.
It becomes tacitly clear that you cannot conquer Fear through force of will or denial, because the way out of the grips of Fear is through Fear itself!
How astonishing! You do some experiments of feeling afraid and not fighting it, simply staying in Fear letting the screams come out as loud as possible. You keep your eyes open and go ahead anyway, even as you tremble, whimper, and sweat.
After repeatedly choosing to stay conscious and Present in the midst of Fear you discover how to re-wire your mind.
All along you have had the 'red wire' connected to the 'blue wire' in your mind. You had it wired that the experience of fear has the meaning: “This is bad. Something is very wrong. I am broken. This is dangerous. I am going to die.”
After the Self Surgery of re-wiring your brain, you make it so that the 'red wire' is now connected to the 'red wire'. Then the experience of fear has the meaning: ‘Fear’.
Suddenly the entire universe of Fear collapses into one simple profound bit of clarity: Fear is fear.
That was the totality of your life-long problem with Fear: you had it cross-wired.
IMPORTANT NOTE: If your self-surgery is successful, you will feel outrage. You will feel grief. You must fully and out-loud experience and express these emotions consciously to people who are able to listen to your full intensity emotions. This integration process is necessary to complete the new wiring.
Your tiny new bit of Clarity solves your Fear problem in an instant!
You start to feel surer of yourself. Fear does not go away, of course. But it does not have to go away. After your rewiring surgery, Fear no longer owns you.
You are now free to feel afraid!
Suddenly you get your aliveness back!
Your relationship to Fear was transformed through the rewiring. Clarity was the key!
Your Fear of gaining Radical Knowledge (as in: Specific Practical Applications of Radical Knowledge, in other words: S.P.A.R.K.s) no longer stops you from gaining Radical Knowledge! The Path shines before you like a stroll on the strand!
You begin to get the notion that Clarity has allowed you to conquer your greatest enemy (Fear!) and the way up the Sacred Mountain seems free of obstacles.
Clarity has become your ally, your secret weapon. You begin collecting Distinctions like a hungry man fills his shopping cart in a grocery store. Your bookshelf grows heavy with transformational titles.
Your mind is blown wide open. The Adventure begins. The game is afoot!
Clarity delivers distinctions that inform you how Fear is only a feeling, one of the 4 Feelings: anger, sadness, fear, and joy! Clarity explains how there is a difference between the 4 Feelings and the 4 Emotions! Feelings and Emotions are both useful, but for entirely different things. Feelings are for handling things! Emotions are for healing things!
Clarity provides new thoughtmaps in which it is okay to feel without being a victim of your Feelings. In fact, your Feelings and your Emotions start serving you professionally!
Clarity allows you to discover how to calibrate your Feelings Detector so as to help others also learn to Inner Navigate their Feelings and Emotions. Your Team can now help each other go through their own Emotional Healing Processes.
Feelings and Emotions used to be so important to you. Now these experiences are merely sensations. Clarity itself reveals that feelings are triggered by stories you create to self-define and to hold the world still. Now you can create feelings on purpose - Conscious Feelings - to serve your Destiny.
You can reinvent yourself so as to reinvent the world.
You have learned how to learn and can anticipate the Liquid State before it occurs, welcoming it boldly as a signal that you are bringing in new Clarity.
Technologies for solving human interaction problems and creating new realities become available to you like an open box of tools, and you learn to use them at home and at work, internally and externally.
As you distinguish your own purposes, the purposes of others become obvious. Upon this empathy is built the castle of understanding, patience, kindness, and ultimately compassion.
You are no longer hooked by other people's games. You are no longer a victim. You can do anything you please. Every option is an option. The world seems radiantly bright, clear and sharp. You can Become Present in it.
Nothing is concealed. You think, “Clarity is fantastic!” And it is. Clarity is a sparkling gateway into a magical kingdom where you can pull out your magic wand and Declare, “Something completely different from this is possible right now,” and sure enough, there is new Possibility.
Whole new Doorways appear and you gain immediate access to unlimited Spaces through Clarity.
Clarity is the best.
Clarity is gold.
Clarity is the way.
Tremendous joy arises as Clarity becomes yours.